This post started out as a comment to Justin Kownacki’s post about Why Twitter Scares People. But it started getting long and going far afield from Justin’s post, so I decided to completely start from scratch and contribute my two cents via my own blog post rather than as a comment to Justin’s.
I’ve been fascinated for a while by several different aspects of Twitter regarding following, being followed, and the etiquette of twittering.
Some people mutually follow each other because they know each other outside of twitter, either on the net (bit-space) or in real life (meat-space). Others follow someone they may have heard speak at a conference or seminar. Maybe they have even met them briefly, but the follower may not remember them or it was in a group situation and so the follower is completely unknown to the followed. Others follow someone because they read their blogs, listen to their podcasts, watch their videocasts, use their software, admire their accomplishments, etc. The follower finds what the followed has to say interesting and informative… or humorous, scandalous, shocking, or (insert your favorite reason here).
Then there are the expectations that people have about being followed. Some people expect they will be followed in return for following someone, whether or not that person knows them at all. Some people happen to see what someone they don’t know has said on twitter, find it interesting, and decide to follow them. Some people on twitter get creeped out by someone unknown “following” them. For my part, some of the most interesting people I have met and talked with on twitter was because of them randomly finding and following me or vice versa.
Finally, there’s the twitter etiquette (twittiquette?). Most people seem to belong to several semi-overlapping, semi-orthogonal circles of friends who mutually follow each other. Many times these groups seem to have developed their own expectations of proper twitter etiquette. And sometimes these groups’ ideas of good etiquette are in conflict. Some think its bad form to post links back to your own blog posts. Others think its OK, just don’t abuse it. If you post 20 articles a day, don’t twitter about each and every one. Sometimes these rules don’t apply. If you’re a podcaster, especially a prominent one, you are going to, and are almost expected to mention that, “Hey, episode 182 of The Wonderful World of Weasels is now online”. Other groups treat twitter as simply another instant messaging app, holding long ongoing conversations. Others view the 140 character limit, the SMS notifications, and the simplicity of twitter as making it unsuited for long conversations. Their tweets are essentially one-shot comments sent off into the ether of whosoever is following. Sometimes folks will reply to this, sometimes not. But no actual extended conversation is going to take place. That being said, if the uber-marketers and ultra-spammers attempt to use twitter they will be simply be shouting into the wind. No one will be listening. They can’t make me follow them, much less take SMS notifications from them.
I expect some interesting sociological process is happening on twitter as these multiple, semi-overlapping, semi-orthogonal groups of mutual followers semi-consciously evolve semi-conflicting rules of etiquette and then react and adapt to them, slowly smoothing out the differences over time. Somebody should probably do a study or something… maybe someone is.
Anyway, for the record, I became intrigued with Twitter before anybody that I knew in bit-space or meat-space was. So I was alone in twitter-space. But I found out about it from some podcast or other… don’t remember which one. So I started following that and other podcasters. Through following them, I discovered other bloggers and software developers whose products I used were twittering, and I had always found what they had to say interesting… so… followed. And I twittered off into the black ether of the public timeline… because no one was following me, because I didn’t know anybody else personally using the thing yet. Then random people started following me. Well, that was weird. I read their tweets and decided to follow some… and not others. But mostly I followed anyone who was following me. Then, amazingly, some of the bloggers/podcasters/software developers that I followed but did not personally know started following me. I thought that was very cool and unusual of them. How could they possibly manage to deal with the tweets of everyone who was following them? Some of them did, though. Then suddenly twitter exploded and people that I knew in bit-space and meat-space all started colliding in twitter-space. I have not yet figured out how to best manage twitter. Some people’s tweets I receive SMS notifications for, others I don’t. Some people post way, way too often about nothing. A hypothetical person who posts interesting things might post “I have hangnail.” and it will be received with humor as a bit of random non-sequitur-ness. But when it comes from a hypothetical person who has just posted 50 other tweets in the last hour, all along the lines of: “I’m going downstairs”, “petting the cat”, “blowing my nose”, “fixing lunch”… well, its a bit tiresome. Some folks post links to their every blog post. Some do it occasionally. Some don’t like that. Some don’t mind.
I’m interested in hearing how you follow people, what you think of being followed, how you manage the onslaught of twitter-postings, how you deal with SMS, and your thoughts on twitter etiquette? Enlighten me? How can I can I not abuse twitter for you?
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